Obsession Spells: Complete Guide to Attraction and Desire Magic

Introduction to Obsession Spells

Obsession spells represent one of the most powerful and controversial forms of love magic in spiritual practices. These spells are designed to create intense feelings of attraction, desire, and constant thoughts about you in another person's mind. While traditional love spells focus on gentle attraction and romantic connection, obsession spells work on a deeper psychological level to occupy someone's thoughts and emotions continuously.

Before we explore these powerful rituals, it is crucial to understand the implications and potential consequences of obsession magic. These spells work by influencing another person's emotional state. The energy you send out through magic returns to you threefold, so casting spells with harmful intent or without proper consideration can have serious karmic consequences.

⚠️ Important Notice

This article provides comprehensive information about obsession spells . We strongly encourage practitioners to consider all dimensions of their magical work and to prioritize consent and healthy relationships over manipulation and control.

Understanding Obsession Magic

Obsession spells operate on the principle of focused intention and energy manipulation. Unlike simple attraction spells that create interest or curiosity, obsession magic aims to create persistent, consuming thoughts about the caster in the target's mind. These spells work with intense emotional energy, psychological influence, and sometimes darker spiritual forces.

Key Elements of Obsession Magic

Intensity of Focus: These spells create an overwhelming mental and emotional preoccupation rather than gentle interest.
Duration: Obsession magic typically works to create long-lasting effects rather than temporary attraction.
Depth of Influence: These spells affect deeper levels of consciousness and subconscious thought patterns.
Emotional Amplification: Obsession spells magnify existing feelings or create powerful new emotional responses.

The psychology behind obsession magic relates to how our minds form attachments and create patterns of thought. When someone occupies our thoughts constantly, neural pathways are strengthened through repetition, making it increasingly difficult to stop thinking about that person. Obsession spells work to artificially accelerate this natural psychological process.

Considerations and Warnings

Critica Points

Consent is paramount in all relationships. Spells that override someone's natural feelings and choices violate their autonomy and dignity as a human being.
Obsession can become harmful to the target. Creating unhealthy attachment patterns can cause psychological distress, anxiety, depression, and emotional instability.
Karmic consequences are real. Most spiritual traditions teach that the energy you send out returns to you multiplied. Harmful magic often backfires on the caster.
Authentic love cannot be forced. Genuine connection requires mutual consent, natural chemistry, and emotional authenticity. Manufactured obsession is not real love.
Legal implications exist. In some cases, magical practices aimed at controlling others could be considered forms of harassment or stalking.

We recommend focusing your magical practice on self-improvement, attracting compatible partners naturally, and healing spells rather than manipulation magic. If you choose to proceed with obsession spells, do so with full awareness of the responsibility you carry.

Timing and Moon Phases for Obsession Spells

Like all magical work, obsession spells are most effective when performed during optimal astrological conditions. Understanding timing helps maximize your spell's power and effectiveness.

Best Moon Phases

Waxing Moon: The period from new moon to full moon is ideal for attraction magic. As the moon grows, so does the intensity of your spell's influence.
Full Moon: The most powerful time for obsession magic. The full moon amplifies all magical energy and creates peak potency for spells involving strong emotions.
Friday Full Moon: When the full moon falls on Friday (Venus's day), it creates exceptional conditions for all love and obsession magic.

Best Days of the Week

Friday: Ruled by Venus, the goddess of love and desire. Friday is the most favorable day for all forms of romantic and obsession magic.
Tuesday: Ruled by Mars, the planet of passion and desire. Tuesday works well for spells involving sexual obsession and physical attraction.
Monday: Ruled by the Moon, good for emotional obsession and creating deep feelings.

Best Times of Day

Midnight: The witching hour holds powerful energy for darker magic and intense spells.
Sunset: The transition between day and night is a liminal time perfect for transformation magic.
Venus Hour: Calculate the planetary hour of Venus on Friday for maximum effectiveness.

Astrological Considerations

Venus in Scorpio: This transit creates intense, obsessive romantic energy perfect for these spells.
Mars in Aries: Amplifies passionate, desire-based magic.
Moon in Cancer or Pisces: Enhances emotional depth and romantic feelings.

Essential Ingredients and Tools

Successful obsession spells require specific materials that carry the right energetic properties. Here are the key ingredients used in obsession magic:

Herbs and Plants

Damiana: The primary herb for obsession and lust magic. Creates intense desire and persistent thoughts.
Calamus Root: Also known as sweet flag, used for controlling and commanding attention.
Licorice Root: Creates sweet thoughts and makes someone think favorably of you constantly.
Patchouli: Attracts and holds attention through its earthy, sensual energy.
Cinnamon: Heats up passion and accelerates the spell's effects.
Rose Petals: Red roses for passionate love, pink for romantic obsession.
Jasmine: Creates intoxicating attraction and sensual thoughts.
Lavender: Binds someone's thoughts to you gently.
Vanilla Bean: Sweetens thoughts and creates pleasant obsessive thinking.
Yarrow: Used in commitment and binding obsession work.

Crystals and Stones

Lodestone: The most powerful stone for attraction and drawing someone to you. Use paired lodestones for relationship obsession.
Red Jasper: Ignites passionate thoughts and physical desire.
Carnelian: Stimulates lust, vitality, and persistent attraction.
Rose Quartz: For romantic obsession with emotional connection.
Garnet: Deep commitment and intense romantic obsession.
Ruby: Powerful passionate love and desire.
Moonstone: For emotional obsession and creating strong feelings.
Black Tourmaline: For protection when working with intense magic.
Obsidian: Helpful for deep, transformative obsession work.
Pink Tourmaline: Creates sweet, romantic obsessive thoughts.

Oils and Essences

Follow Me Oil: Traditional formula for making someone unable to stop thinking about you.
Obsession Oil: Commercial blend specifically for this purpose.
Come to Me Oil: Draws someone toward you compulsively.
Love Me Oil: Creates affectionate obsessive thoughts.
Jasmine Essential Oil: Intoxicating sensual attraction.
Ylang Ylang: Deep romantic and sexual obsession.
Patchouli Oil: Earthy sexual obsession.
Rose Otto: Intense romantic feelings.
Cinnamon Oil: Heating and accelerating passion.
Sandalwood: Spiritual and romantic connection.

Personal Concerns

Hair: The most powerful personal concern for any spell.
Nail clippings: Strong connection to the target.
Worn clothing: Carries their energy and scent.
Handwriting sample: Connects to their thoughts and personality.
Photograph: Visual representation for focus.
Name paper: Write their full name for magical connection.
Bodily fluids: Most powerful but ethically problematic.
Signature: Personal mark of identity.

Candles

Red candles: Passionate love and sexual obsession.
Pink candles: Romantic emotional obsession.
Black candles: For darker, controlling obsession work.
Orange candles: Attraction and fascination.
Purple candles: Psychic influence and mental obsession.
Figure candles: Shaped like people for focused targeting.

10 Powerful Obsession Spells

Spell 1: The Magnetic Mirror Obsession Spell

This spell uses mirror magic to reflect your image constantly into the target's mind, making them unable to stop thinking about you.

Materials Needed:

Small compact mirror
Red candle
Lodestone
Your photograph
Target's photograph
Patchouli oil
Red thread
Small cloth pouch

Instructions:

Cleanse your mirror by passing it through sage smoke while visualizing it as a blank slate.
On a Friday during the waxing moon, set up your workspace with the red candle in the center.
Anoint the candle with patchouli oil while focusing on your intention.
Light the candle and hold the mirror reflecting the candle flame.
Place your photograph behind the mirror glass, then place the target's photo facing your photo.
Speak this incantation nine times: "Mirror bright, mirror clear, keep me in their thoughts always near. Every reflection they see, brings their mind back to me. Day and night, thoughts of me, obsessed and bound, so mote it be."
Drip red wax around the edges to seal the photos to the mirror.
Attach the lodestone to the back of the mirror using red thread, wrapping it nine times.
Place the entire assembly in the red pouch.
Keep this pouch in a dark place. The spell grows stronger the longer it remains undisturbed.
Every Friday, hold the pouch and repeat the incantation three times to refresh the spell.

Expected Results: Within 2-3 weeks, the target should begin reaching out more frequently, mentioning they've been thinking about you, or showing signs of preoccupation with you.

Spell 2: The Honey Jar Obsession Ritual

This traditional folk magic spell sweetens someone's thoughts about you while trapping their attention in a binding way.

Materials Needed:

Glass jar with lid
Raw honey
Brown sugar
Cinnamon sticks (3)
Damiana herb
Red rose petals
Calamus root chips
Personal concerns from target
Your photograph
Target's photograph
Red candle
Your name written on paper

Instructions:

Write the target's full name nine times on white paper.
Turn the paper 90 degrees and write your name across theirs nine times, creating a crosshatch pattern.
Draw a heart around both names and write "Obsessed with me" in a circle around the heart.
Place this name paper at the bottom of the jar.
Add your photograph and target's photograph face to face.
Layer ingredients in the jar: honey, damiana, rose petals, calamus root, brown sugar, and cinnamon sticks.
Add any personal concerns from the target.
Fill the jar completely with honey, ensuring no air bubbles remain.
As you seal the jar, say: "Sweet as honey, strong as a rope, bound in obsession, love, and hope. Every thought leads back to me, consumed by desire, so shall it be."
Drip red wax around the lid to seal it completely.
Place the red candle on top of the jar lid.
Light the candle every Friday for nine consecutive weeks, letting it burn for at least 30 minutes while visualizing the target obsessing over you.
Between sessions, keep the jar in a dark, warm place.
Shake the jar gently once daily while saying the target's name three times.

Expected Results: Effects typically manifest within 4-6 weeks. The target will find you constantly on their mind, have difficulty focusing on other relationships, and feel drawn to contact you frequently.

Spell 3: The Dream Invasion Obsession Spell

This spell works through the target's subconscious mind, appearing in their dreams nightly until you dominate their sleeping thoughts.

Materials Needed:

Purple candle
Mugwort herb
Lavender
Jasmine flowers
Small fabric pillow or sachet
Target's hair or photo
Your photo
Moonstone
Sandalwood incense
Dream journal

Instructions:

Perform this spell on a Monday night during a full moon.
Create a dream sachet by mixing mugwort, lavender, and jasmine in a small fabric pouch.
Add the moonstone to the sachet.
If you have the target's hair, add it to the sachet. If not, place their photo inside.
Add your photo facing theirs.
Light sandalwood incense and pass the sachet through the smoke seven times.
Light the purple candle.
Hold the sachet between your palms and chant: "Through the veil of sleep and dream, I appear in every scene. Subconscious mind now fixed on me, waking thoughts obsessed shall be. Dream of me both night and day, from your thoughts I'll never stray."
Sleep with the sachet under your pillow for three consecutive nights.
Each night before sleep, visualize yourself appearing in the target's dreams in romantic scenarios.
After three nights, place the sachet under the target's pillow if possible, or keep it under yours if not.
Burn the purple candle for 15 minutes every Monday night while visualizing them dreaming of you.
Keep a dream journal and note any dreams about the target, as these may indicate the spell is working reciprocally.

Expected Results: Within 1-2 weeks, the target will mention having dreams about you or will display daytime behavior suggesting you're on their mind constantly. They may seem distracted, mention you frequently, or reach out at unusual hours.

Spell 4: The Binding Thread Obsession Spell

This spell uses sympathetic magic to bind someone's thoughts to you through physical cord binding.

Materials Needed:

Two poppets (fabric dolls)
Red thread or cord (9 feet long)
Stuffing for poppets (cotton)
Fabric markers
Personal concerns from both parties
Damiana herb
Rose petals
Cardamom pods
Red candle
Cinnamon oil

Instructions:

Create two simple poppets from fabric. One represents you, the other represents the target.
Use fabric markers to draw faces and features on each poppet.
Stuff your poppet with cotton mixed with rose petals and your hair or nail clipping.
Stuff the target's poppet with cotton mixed with damiana, cardamom, and their personal concern.
On a Friday night, anoint the red candle with cinnamon oil.
Light the candle and present both poppets to the flame.
Say: "Two figures separate stand, now bound by obsession's hand. (Target's name) thoughts fixed on (your name), every moment, every day."
Begin wrapping the red thread around both poppets together, binding them face to face.
With each wrap, say: "Thoughts of me, cannot flee, obsessed and bound eternally."
Wrap the thread until the poppets are completely bound together with no space between them.
Tie nine knots in the thread, charging each knot with intention.
Drip red wax over the binding to seal it.
Sleep with the bound poppets under your pillow for nine nights.
After nine nights, hide the poppets in a dark, safe place where they won't be disturbed.
Never separate the poppets or the spell will break.

Expected Results: Effects manifest within 2-4 weeks. The target will feel an unexplainable connection to you, want to spend increasing amounts of time with you, and feel anxious or uncomfortable when separated from you.

Spell 5: The Lodestone Obsession Attraction

This spell uses the magnetic properties of lodestone to draw someone's attention and hold it powerfully.

Materials Needed:

Two lodestones (one male, one female)
Magnetic sand
Red flannel bag
Come to Me oil
Obsession oil
Personal concerns from both parties
Your name on paper
Target's name on paper
Red candle
Petition paper

Instructions:

Identify which lodestone is male (projecting energy) and which is female (receiving energy).
Feed the lodestones by sprinkling them with magnetic sand weekly.
On a Friday, write a petition stating your desire: "(Target's name) is obsessed with (your name). They think of me constantly and cannot focus on anyone else."
Place the petition paper on your altar.
Put your name paper and personal concern on the female lodestone.
Put the target's name paper and personal concern on the male lodestone.
Anoint both stones with Come to Me oil.
Place both stones on the petition paper.
Light the red candle.
Begin moving the stones closer together while chanting: "Magnetic force, strong and true, draw (target's name) to me like iron drawn to you. Obsessed they'll be, thoughts fixed on me, bound by attraction magnetically."
When the stones snap together, let them remain connected.
Wrap them together with the petition paper and both name papers.
Anoint the bundle with Obsession oil.
Place everything in the red flannel bag.
Keep this bag in a dark, secure location.
Every Friday, feed the stones with magnetic sand and hold the bag while visualizing the target obsessing over you.

Expected Results: This is one of the fastest-acting spells. Results can begin within days, with full effects manifesting in 2-3 weeks. The target will feel magnetically drawn to you and unable to maintain emotional distance.

Spell 6: The Seven Knot Obsession Binding

This traditional knot magic spell traps someone's thoughts about you with each knot tied.

Materials Needed:

Red cord or ribbon (12 inches)
Pink cord or ribbon (12 inches)
Personal concern from target
Your hair
Jasmine oil
Red wine
Rose quartz
Small bottle or vial
Parchment paper

Instructions:

On parchment paper, write: "Seven knots I tie this day, (target's name) thoughts shall never stray. Bound to me in heart and mind, to my will their soul is bind."
Braid together the red and pink cords while focusing intensely on the target.
Incorporate strands of your hair into the braid.
Tie the first knot while saying: "With knot of one, the spell's begun."
Tie the second knot while saying: "With knot of two, they'll think of me true."
Tie the third knot while saying: "With knot of three, obsessed they'll be."
Tie the fourth knot while saying: "With knot of four, they'll love me more."
Tie the fifth knot while saying: "With knot of five, the spell's alive."
Tie the sixth knot while saying: "With knot of six, their thoughts I fix."
Tie the seventh knot while saying: "With knot of seven, bound by heaven."
Anoint each knot with jasmine oil.
Place the target's personal concern inside the cord loop.
Place the rose quartz on the parchment paper, then wrap the knotted cord around it.
Put everything in the small bottle with a few drops of red wine.
Seal the bottle completely.
Hide the bottle in a dark place.
Every seven days, shake the bottle gently while repeating all seven knot sayings.

Expected Results: Effects build gradually with each week. By seven weeks, the target should be completely preoccupied with thoughts of you, checking on you constantly, and seeking your attention above all else.

Spell 7: The Candle Wax Obsession Seal

This spell uses candle magic to literally seal your image into someone's mind.

Materials Needed:

Large red pillar candle
Target's photograph
Your photograph
Rose oil
Damiana herb
Cinnamon powder
Carving tool
Pink ribbon
Obsession oil blend (patchouli, jasmine, ylang ylang)

Instructions:

Carve the target's full name vertically down the candle.
Turn the candle 90 degrees and carve your name horizontally across theirs.
Carve the word "OBSESSED" in a spiral around the candle.
Anoint the entire candle with obsession oil blend.
Roll the candle in a mixture of damiana herb and cinnamon powder.
Place your photograph face up on your altar.
Place the target's photograph face down on top of yours so you're looking at each other.
Tie the photos together with pink ribbon, making nine knots.
Place the candle on top of the bound photographs.
Light the candle while stating: "As this wax melts and flows, (target's name) obsession grows. Sealed in thought, sealed in mind, to me alone their heart is bind. Every drop that melts away, makes them think of me each day."
Let the candle burn continuously until it's completely melted. This may take several days, ensure fire safety.
As the wax melts, it will seal the photographs together.
Once the candle is completely burned, you'll have a wax-sealed bundle containing both photos.
Wrap this bundle in red cloth and keep it in a secure, dark place.
The spell remains active as long as the wax seal is intact.

Expected Results: This powerful spell typically shows results within 2-3 weeks. The target will exhibit intense interest in you, jealousy of your other relationships, and constant checking of your social media or whereabouts.

Spell 8: The Midnight Petition Obsession Spell

This spell combines written petition magic with midnight energy for powerful results.

Materials Needed:

Red ink pen
Parchment paper
Dragon's blood ink (or red ink)
Personal concerns from both
Black candle
Red candle
Cinnamon incense
Fireproof bowl
Your blood (optional - one drop)

Instructions:

Wait until midnight on a Friday during the waxing or full moon.
Light cinnamon incense to fill your space with smoke.
Light the black candle on the left and red candle on the right.
In the center, place the parchment paper.
Using dragon's blood ink, write your petition in a spiral starting from the outside and spiraling inward: "By the stroke of midnight hour, I activate obsession's power. (Target's full name) cannot rest, with thoughts of (your name) obsessed. Waking hours and sleeping time, every thought of me divine. Unable to focus, unable to see, anyone or anything but me."
If you choose, add one drop of your blood to the center of the spiral.
Place both personal concerns on the petition.
Hold your hands over the petition and visualize the target thinking about you obsessively.
Fold the petition toward you nine times, each fold bringing their obsession closer.
Pass the folded petition through the smoke of both candles and incense.
Say nine times: "Midnight magic, dark and deep, into (target's name) mind I creep. Obsessed they are, obsessed they'll stay, growing stronger every day."
Place the petition in the fireproof bowl between both candles.
Let both candles burn completely through the night if safe to do so.
Keep the petition in a black cloth bag hidden in a dark place.
Every midnight on Friday, hold the petition and repeat the incantation three times.

Expected Results: This spell works deeply on the psychological level. Within 3-4 weeks, the target will show signs of distraction, mention you frequently to others, and seem unable to be present in other relationships. They may reach out at strange hours or mention having trouble sleeping.

Spell 9: The Reflection Obsession Spell

This spell uses mirrors and reflection to create a feedback loop where every reflective surface reminds the target of you.

Materials Needed:

Small mirror (pocket-sized)
Your photograph
Target's photograph
Silver glitter
Rose water
Red marker
Clear envelope or plastic sleeve
Moonstone chip
Full moon water

Instructions:

On the night of the full moon, cleanse the mirror with rose water.
Place the mirror face up under the full moon to charge it for at least one hour.
Create full moon water by placing a bowl of spring water under the full moon.
Write on the back of your photograph: "Every reflection shows my face."
Write on the back of target's photograph: "(Name) sees only me."
Place your photo face down on the mirror surface.
Sprinkle silver glitter over your photo (glitter catches and reflects light).
Place the target's photo face down on top of yours (so both photos face the mirror).
Seal the sandwich of mirror-photo-photo in a clear envelope.
Place the moonstone chip in the envelope.
Use the red marker to draw an eye on the outside of the envelope.
Sprinkle the full moon water over the envelope while saying: "Mirror, mirror, small but bright, fill their mind with my sight. Every glass and every pane, shows my image once again. Reflections caught and cannot flee, (target's name) obsessed with me."
Store this in a dark place where it won't be disturbed.
On each full moon, take out the envelope, repeat the incantation, and sprinkle it with fresh full moon water.
The spell remains active indefinitely as long as the envelope stays sealed.

Expected Results: Within 2-3 weeks, the target will start seeing reminders of you everywhere. They'll mention that things keep reminding them of you, they'll notice your similarities in others, and they'll see your features in random places. This creates a feedback loop of constant thoughts about you.

Spell 10: The Personal Concern Obsession Charm

This spell creates a powerful charm using a personal concern that keeps someone's energy directly connected to you.

Materials Needed:

Target's hair (ideal) or worn clothing piece
Your hair
Small locket or charm container
Dried rose petals
Damiana
Lodestone chips
Patchouli oil
Red fabric square (4x4 inches)
Red thread
Pink candle
Your name and target's name on paper

Instructions:

On a Friday evening during the waxing moon, set up a clean altar space.
Light the pink candle.
Write your name and target's name on paper in a crossing pattern (your name vertical, theirs horizontal).
In the locket or charm container, create layers: Bottom: Your hair, Middle: Mixture of rose petals, damiana, and lodestone chips, Top: Target's hair or piece of their clothing
Anoint each layer with patchouli oil as you add it.
Close the locket and hold it in both hands.
Visualize the target's face and say: "By this hair and by this charm, (target's name) comes to no harm, but cannot resist their desire for me, obsessed and wanting constantly. Every moment, every day, thoughts of me will never stray."
Place the locket on the name paper.
Drip pink wax over the locket to seal it partially.
Place both the locket and name paper in the center of the red fabric.
Fold the fabric around them and tie it closed with red thread, making nine knots.
Sleep with this charm under your pillow for nine consecutive nights.
After nine nights, carry the charm with you always, as close to your body as possible.
The spell remains active as long as you carry the charm.
To strengthen it, anoint the charm with patchouli oil every Friday.

Expected Results: This is extremely powerful due to the direct personal concerns. Results often manifest within one week. The target will feel a physical pull toward you, experience your absence as actual discomfort, and prioritize your presence above all else. Be prepared for very intense attention and possible jealous or possessive behavior.

Strengthening and Maintaining Obsession Spells

Once you've cast an obsession spell, maintaining its power requires ongoing attention and energy. Here are techniques to strengthen and preserve your spell work:

Regular Reinforcement

Most obsession spells benefit from weekly reinforcement. Choose a consistent day (preferably Friday) and time to reconnect with your spell's energy. This might involve reciting incantations, anointing candles, or simply holding your spell materials while visualizing your intention.

Moon Phase Refreshing

Every full moon offers an opportunity to amplify your obsession spell. Take out your spell materials and expose them to the full moon's light for at least one hour. This recharges the lunar energy within the spell.

Feeding Lodestones and Tools

If your spell uses lodestones, feed them weekly with magnetic sand. For honey jars, burn candles on top weekly. For poppets or pouches, add drops of relevant oils monthly. These materials are alive with your intention and need nourishment.

Visualization Practice

Spend 10-15 minutes daily visualizing your desired outcome. See the target thinking about you, reaching out to you, being unable to focus on anything else. The more consistently you hold this vision, the stronger your spell becomes.

Avoid Doubt and Negative Thoughts

Doubt is the death of magic. Never second-guess your spell or tell others about it. Skeptical energy weakens magical work. Keep your spell secret and maintain absolute confidence in its success.

Additional Sympathetic Magic

Layer related spells on top of your original work. You might add a drawing spell to pull them closer physically, a communication spell to increase contact, or a sweetening spell to keep interactions positive.

Energy Cleansing

Regularly cleanse yourself and your space to prevent your spell from being contaminated by outside energy. Use sage, salt baths, or protective crystals to maintain the purity of your magical work.

Signs Your Spell is Working

Knowing whether your obsession spell is taking effect helps you decide whether to continue current work or adjust your approach. Look for these indicators:

Communication Changes

The target suddenly increases contact frequency. They text first more often, respond more quickly, initiate conversations, or seem to always be available when you reach out.

Attention Seeking Behavior

They go out of their way to be noticed by you. This might include dressing differently when they know they'll see you, mentioning accomplishments, or creating reasons to interact.

Verbal Indicators

They mention thinking about you, having dreams about you, or noticing things that remind them of you. They might say things like "I can't get you out of my head" or "I was just thinking about you."

Social Media Behavior

Increased viewing of your social media profiles, liking old posts, watching all your stories, or posting content that seems directed at getting your attention.

Physical Proximity

They find reasons to be physically near you, show up at places you frequent, or seem to "accidentally" run into you more often.

Jealousy and Possessiveness

They show signs of jealousy regarding your other relationships or seem troubled when you mention other people. They ask questions about your availability or relationship status.

Distraction and Preoccupation

Others notice they seem distracted or preoccupied. They lose focus during conversations when you're mentioned or present. They seem unable to concentrate on other relationships or activities.

Changes in Priorities

They rearrange schedules to accommodate you, cancel other plans when you're available, or make you a priority over previous commitments.

Emotional Intensity

Their emotions regarding you seem disproportionate to the length or depth of your relationship. They express strong feelings quickly or seem emotionally invested beyond what makes logical sense.

Physical Symptoms Warning

In intense cases, they may mention physical symptoms in your absence like anxiety, restlessness, inability to sleep, or a feeling of incompleteness. While this indicates powerful spell work, it also raises ethical concerns about the target's wellbeing.

What to Do When Spells Backfire

Obsession spells carry significant risk of backfiring or creating unintended consequences. Here's how to handle problems:

Spell Reversal

If you've created an unhealthy dynamic or the target's obsession has become problematic, you need to reverse your work. This involves:

Destroying or burying all spell materials while stating your intention to release the target
Performing a cord-cutting ceremony to sever the magical connection
Creating a release petition stating the target is free from your influence
Using black candles to absorb and neutralize the obsession energy

Karmic Cleansing

Backfiring spells often result from karmic consequences. Address this through:

Taking full responsibility for your actions without excuses
Performing charitable acts or service to balance negative energy sent out
Working with protective deities or spirits to request forgiveness and guidance
Undergoing spiritual cleansing through baths, smoke, or energy work

Protection Work

When obsession magic backfires, the energy can return to harm the caster. Protect yourself through:

Creating a protective circle around your space using salt or protective herbs
Carrying black tourmaline or obsidian for energy deflection
Reciting protective prayers or mantras daily
Setting up mirror shields to reflect negative energy away

Professional Help

In serious cases, seek help from:

Experienced magical practitioners who specialize in undoing harmful magic
Spiritual advisors who can assess karmic damage and recommend remedies
Mental health professionals if the situation has created psychological distress
Energy healers who can identify and remove attached cords or entities

Learning from the Experience

Use backfired spells as learning opportunities:

Reflect honestly on your motivations and whether they were healthy
Consider the ethical implications you may have ignored initially
Study the principles of magical ethics more deeply
Commit to more responsible magical practice going forward

Alternatives to Obsession Spells

Before casting obsession magic, consider these healthier alternatives that respect free will while still working toward your romantic goals:

Self-Love Spells

Focus on becoming so magnetic and confident that people are naturally drawn to you. Self-love magic enhances your own energy rather than manipulating others.

Attraction Spells

Cast spells that put you in the path of compatible partners or make you more visible to potential romantic interests without targeting specific people.

Communication Spells

If you already have a relationship with someone, use magic to open channels of honest communication rather than forcing obsession.

Path Clearing Spells

Remove obstacles that prevent natural romantic connection from developing. This respects both parties' free will while facilitating authentic attraction.

Glamour Magic

Enhance your physical appearance, confidence, and charisma so others are naturally attracted to you without magical manipulation.

Meditation and Manifestation

Use law of attraction principles to manifest an ideal partner rather than trying to force a specific person who may not be right for you.

Healing Spells

Address your own emotional wounds, attachment issues, or fear of rejection that might be driving the desire to control another person.

Cord Cutting

If you're obsessed with someone unavailable, cut energetic cords to free yourself from unhealthy attachment rather than trying to force reciprocation.

Frequently Asked Questions

How long do obsession spells take to work?

Most obsession spells manifest initial results within 2-4 weeks, with full effects developing over 6-8 weeks. Timing depends on the spell's complexity, the strength of the caster's intention, how close the target already is to the caster, and environmental factors like astrological conditions.

Can obsession spells be permanent?

Obsession spells can create long-lasting effects, but truly permanent results are rare unless continuously maintained. Like any energy work, the effects fade over time without reinforcement. Some practitioners bind obsession spells into physical objects that preserve the magic as long as the objects remain intact.

Will the person know they're under a spell?

Typically, no. The target experiences their obsessive thoughts as natural feelings they can't explain. However, if someone is experienced with energy work or has strong intuitive abilities, they may sense something is influencing them unnaturally.

Can someone block or reflect an obsession spell?

Yes. People with strong personal protection, regular spiritual cleansing practices, or the help of protective spirits may unconsciously deflect obsession magic. Some individuals naturally reflect psychic attacks back to the sender. This is why protection work is essential when casting obsession spells.

What if the spell affects the wrong person?

This happens when spells are cast without sufficient focus or proper identification of the target. To prevent this, always use personal concerns from the specific individual and clearly visualize them throughout the ritual. If you accidentally bind the wrong person, perform an immediate reversal and cleansing.

Are there legal consequences for obsession spells?

In most jurisdictions, spiritual practices cannot be legally restricted. However, if magical work is combined with physical stalking, harassment, or threatening behavior, those actions carry legal consequences regardless of spiritual intent.

Can I cast obsession spells on multiple people?

Technically yes, but this is strongly discouraged. Dividing your magical energy weakens all spells involved. More importantly, juggling multiple obsession spells creates complex karmic entanglements and increases the likelihood of serious backfiring.

What if the person is already in a relationship?

Obsession spells become more complex and ethically problematic when the target is already committed to someone else. Such spells often incorporate break-up magic alongside obsession work, which multiplies karmic consequences. Results are also slower and less reliable when working against existing strong emotional bonds.

How do I know if I'm being unethical?

Ask yourself: Would I want someone to cast this spell on me? Am I respecting this person's autonomy? Are my intentions coming from love or control? Am I willing to accept responsibility for all consequences? If any answer gives you pause, reconsider your approach.

Can I reverse an obsession spell I cast?

Yes. Reversing your own spell work is generally easier than undoing someone else's magic. The key is destroying all physical spell components, performing cord-cutting rituals, and formally releasing the target from your magical influence through spoken or written statement of intent.

Troubleshooting Common Problems

Even experienced practitioners encounter challenges with obsession spells. Here are common issues and solutions: